New look of BLOG plus my new E Book

New look of BLOG plus my new E Book

Change is the permanent thing in life.

A new year is coming, do something new every year; I plan to read 3 to 4 new books, write lot of success letter, which will be helpful for my readers.

(Following is the new blog address. New post will publish on the following address. )

 

So, the big news “The Success Letter” is changing. I am changing towards the new look of my blog, and a new look of “The Success Letter”

I am publishing my new book “Do your personal audit” before starting a new year, do your personal audit.

The book will help you in,

• Know yourself better?
• Audit your skills.
• What are the new skills you have to acquire?
• Where are you right now?
• Where you want to go in life.
• Review yourself
• Accountability towards yourself
• Find your own potential.

Enjoy New Year, with new hope, but before enjoying. Audit yourself for successful 2014, and then challenge yourself. I write down some challenges for you.

10 Challenges for you in 2014

• Develop your child.
• Encourage yourself and your friends.
• Read 2 great books.
• Do something, which is out of your comfort level.
• Learn something new.
• Write a thank you note to your parents.
• Do better every time.
• Be passionate.
• Become excellent oriented.
• Invest in yourself.

“Only by contending with challenges that seem to be beyond your strength to handle at the moment you can grow more surely toward the stars” — Brian Tracy

 

I hope you will accept the challenge, and will become more successful in life.

I hope you will enjoy the new look.

Change Yourself.

To Your Success,

Harish S. Kawalkar

 

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9 Steps of Achieving Anything

9 Steps of Achieving Anything

Everything in the world is totally depending upon fundamentals. Achievement or success has its own fundamentals it’s easy to know the fundamentals, but execution of fundamentals are very important. Your success is totally depending upon the execution. You can achieve anything, if you follow these fundamentals in life, these are…….

Desire 

Your burning desire is your power to become successful. Your will power of achieving something decides your success.
If you have burning desire of achievement, then your mind is all ready prepared, and your thought process, is ready to do the work.
If you have a burning desire of your goal, the law of attraction works. You can achieve anything in the world if you have a burning desire.
Your skills and knowledge are secondary, if you have burning desire because, from your desire you can learn new knowledge and skills those are necessary to achieve your goal, but you cannot learn or adapt burning desire from your skills and knowledge.

Decision
Your decision is first step to your success. Decide what you want, decide on your goal, decide on your plan. Make decision at any cost.
You are not accomplishing anything if you are not made any decision.
Lot of people is not take decision, on what they want in life. If you are deciding to fail you are going to be failed. Take decision on what you want, and then convince yourself first, convince your mind, convince your thought. If you fail to convince yourself you are not able to convince the world.
Taking decision is important task in your success. People make a lot of excuses while taking decision; you must have to work on your plan without making any excuses.
Every decision is tough, but you have to make it for your success. Great leaders are good decision maker; they decide exactly what they want. Develop a skill on decision-making. Your whole success and failure depend upon your own decision-making.
So, decide and take decision every time in life.

Performance
Performance is very important in life. Everything is depending upon your performance. Lot of people knows how to play cricket, but they fail to perform at ground. So knowing about anything is not enough your performance is very important.
You have to develop necessary skill and ability to perform at your best.
You must have a blue print of your plan, but performance or your action depends upon you. You are the key to your plan and your performance count. You are the master-key to your success.
Successful people improve their performance every time, when they got chance to perform. You have to improve your performance and you have to analyse your performance every time. You can find best example of performance in sports and in real life also.

Laugh
There is no remedy like laughing, if you laugh a lot you are decreasing your stress. Stress is a big enemy of today’s lifestyle. No matter how happy you are, but stress happen when you are working on your plan. Laughing is the only free remedy on your stress.
Learn to laugh on yourself first. If you laugh on yourself you are eliminating the fear. Laughing is very good in fear; fear is the negative emotion, like fear of failure, fear of social life. If you know laughing you are making victory on fear. Laughing is the sure solution on all negative emotions. You must start a day in morning with laughing, laughing makes you happy, and people likes happy people, if you are depress and unhappy, nobody likes to talk with you, so laugh every day, and try to make everybody laugh. If you are happy and have positive energy around you, you can achieve anything faster than you ever imagine. Let’s try this step for seven-day you will get awesome results.

Don’t fear
Don’t be fearful in life. Fear is not exists in real life, it’s only in your mind. Fear is negative emotion, and fear can hold you back.
Fear is the insecurity about something. Successful people are ready to fail, and it’s a normal process, if you try anything new you are going to fail, there is nothing worry about it, and don’t make a failure as a fear. Remember you can use fear in a positive way, if you are not work on your plan you are going to fail. Failure is not fear; not working on your plan is fear.
Fear exists in your mind, and it exists in your mind from when you are a growing child. Your parents are the main part in developing fear in your mind, but don’t blame anybody. Life is too short to live, live it positive way. You have to solve the problem, not make the situation complicated.
If you are having fear you are not achieve anything. You have to eliminate the fear at first step, successful people are fearless, and they don’t have any fear in their mind.
If you want to achieve great in life you have to develop fearless mind.

No Excuses
Successful people and high achievers they are not making any excuse. They are no excuse persons. Your one excuse can destroy everything. Excuses are your doubt about yourself or doubt about your plan.
Become a self-confident person in life. If you fail, you will learn life changing lessons. Failure lessons are not in books, your success is depend upon how many times you fail. So failure is the integral part of success. Don’t make excuse on possibility of failure or success. Excuses are not real; it’s like fear only exists in your mind. Your burning desire will help you in making no excuses in life.
If you like excuses don’t dream about success. Successful people and high achievers do things than making excuses. Doing things can give you different results, but excuses only results into failures.
So adapt habit of no excuses in life.

Invest in yourself:

I like it very much, if you want to do great things in life, you have to invest in yourself. You have to invest in your skills, in your abilities, but most important is invest in your knowledge.
Remember what Benjamin Franklin said

“An investment in knowledge pays the best interest”

If you like to be successful in life, you have to invest in your knowledge. In this competitive world your knowledge will save you. Reading books is a great way to add in knowledge.

You must have a habit of improving yourself each time.

Be focus

Focus is very important in life. If you like to be successful you must focus on your goal. You must have focus on your plan. If you are focus you will achieve your goal very fast.

Successful people are very focus persons. They don’t bother about others plan.

So always focus.   

Commit to yourself:

Commit to yourself, is the final step of achieving anything in life. If you are committed and loyal towards your goal, you will achieve anything.

You must commit about your goals, plans, and finally commit yourself to excellence.

Successful people are excellence oriented.

To Your Success,

 

Harish S. Kawalkar

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Life changing lessons from Sachin Tendulkar

Life changing lessons from Sachin Tendulkar

Every sport will teach you life learning lessons, because there is a similarity between sports and life, both are practical, there is no shortcut, you have to work in real world. And if you are taking leaning from sports persons it’s great, and if it’s a legend then you will learn the success mantras.

Let’s learn from “GOD OF CRICKET” Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar

People look at the sachin’s cricket but sachin is more than cricket, if you like to be successful in life, you must have something extra compare to other people.

Why sachin become successful? Because of his cricket, I think NO big NO, sachin has few qualities, and due to this qualities sachin’s cricket is successful, learn and apply this qualities and become successful in life.

Dream:                                                             

You must have dream in life, without dream you not going to achieve anything in life. Just read what sachin writes to its retirement letter to BCCI

“All my life, I have had a dream of playing cricket for India. I have been living this dream every day for the last 24 years. It’s hard for me to imagine a life without playing cricket because it’s all I have ever done since I was 11 years old.” 

Your dreams determine your success, you must have dream and you have to live your dream every day, sachin living his dream every day.

Sachin once said,

“Don’t stop chasing your dreams, because dreams do come true.”

If you have a dream, work hard for your dream, and live your dream every day. If you focus more on your dream, you will accomplish more effectively, and you will never be de motivated by setbacks and failure.

Dreams are the main factor of Sachin’s success. So dream big dreams.

Passion:

Passion means strong emotions, devotion, and desire. You must have strong desire to be successful, as Sachin has only one burning desire to play great cricket. He never plays for records. Records are the part of his desire.

Sachin has great devotion towards cricket and his own game. He never knows anything more than cricket. He only plays his dream with passion.

Your passion is your driving force to complete your goal. Successful people are more passionate on dreams.

Remember what Robin Sharma says…

“People who have achieved great success are not necessarily more skillful or intelligent than others. What separates them is their burning desire and thirst for knowledge. The more one knows, the more one achieves.”

Skills and intelligent is important but more than that your desire and your passion is important.

Sachin has only one passion called “Cricket”

Focus:

Successful people are focus on their goal. The elder brother of Sachin Tendulkar once said “Sachin’s strength is his Focus”

People ignore the focus, but your intensity of focus drive towards achieving your goal. People get more success due to their focus.

According to law of attraction, what you focus intensely on is what you get. If you focus on your goal, your action will automatically converted ultimately you got success.

Your focus attracts, and changes your thought process. Your thoughts are your focus.

In whole life sachin has only one focus to play great cricket for India. Your focus is your success.

Self Discipline:

Self Discipline is the master-key of success. Successful people are self disciplined people in life.

Sachin’s life changing tool is his self-discipline towards his life. Your self-discipline towards your responsibility, your passion, your goal and your hard work determines your success in life.

Unsuccessful people are undisciplined in their entire life.

Sachin has a great quality of self-discipline. People lost their self-discipline when they become successful, but sachin remain self-discipline after got huge success, which separate Sachin from normal successful people in life. There is a little difference between successful people and great people. The little difference is stay discipline after become successful.

Temperament:

Temperament means the combination of mental and emotional traits of a person.

Lot of people can play great cricket but they are not successful. Temperament is a mental strength of person, in starting I write there is a similarity between sports and life, because both are real. In cricket lot of times opposite team player ready to disturb batsman by many ways, but you must have great temperament to become successful.

In real life your right temperament play very important role in success. Success is not easy it’s a mental test, if you have all the skills and quality necessary to become successful but if you are not having right temperament you are going to be a big failure.

Your emotions are catalyst in between your thoughts and actions. Your emotions can decide your action, and in cricket and in life you must have right emotions otherwise your cricket or life become failure.

There is a secret, you’re mental and emotional traits are easily influenced by others might be positive or negative way. You must have a great control of your mental and emotional traits.    

Sachin has a great temperament.

Never Give Up:

Sachin has a lot of medical injures in entire his life of cricket. Major injuries in tennis elbow, few people think it’s an end of sachin’s cricket. But he never stops and never gives up on his cricket.

Unsuccessful people are easily give up when situation is tough, but successful people like Sachin Tendulkar are never give up on his game.

The main reason why people give up? Because of lack of passion and desire.

Sachin has only one passion called cricket. And he lives his passion daily.

So, never give up on your dreams, on your passion and on your desire…

Hard work:

I love hard work, and I love hard work as a subject. There is no word in real life like smart work; smart work word is discovered by people who are manipulative in nature.

If you like to be successful in life, become hard worker and stay hard worker.

Sachin Tendulkar, Amitabh Bachchan, Warren Buffet all are hard worker they work hard daily, their way of hard work might be different but all are hard worker. Warren Buffet might read a lot in a day, which is hard work, reading is not easy it’s very hard and not smart work.

Amitabh Bachchan works eight to ten hours a day, Sachin Tendulkar practice six to eight hours a day.

I will prove that successful people are hard worker not smart worker.

In last………..

“Successful people or great people are normal human being, just like you but they are separate from normal people because of their qualities and skills” sachin is a great example of these words

What people say about Sachin Tendulkar?

“God has made him play cricket. He has been doing that for the past 21 years and will be there a few more years to come” MS Dhoni

“For me he’s a professor in batting. He’s very streetwise in terms of the way he goes about his business” Gary Kirsten

“If I’ve to bowl to Sachin, I’ll bowl with my helmet on. He hits the ball so hard” Dennis Lillee

“The only batsman I would love to see by paying for the tickets and sitting in the stand just to watch him is none other than Sachin Tendulkar”  Brian Lara

“I would say he’s 99.5 percent perfect” Viv Richards

“I have seen God, he bats at no. 4 for India” Matthew Hayden

Learn every day!

To Your Success,

 

Harish S. Kawalkar

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Three Ways to Change Your Life

Three Ways to Change Your Life

Few days back I met my school’s old friend, he is confuse, not happy in his work, not ready to take decision. In short he is not happy with life.

After discussion with him for more than an hour, he said I want to change my life, I little bit confuse what he is saying? So I have a discussion with him. Today I share some important point with you, which might be helpful.

There are no secrets to change your life. Life is what you think, what you do, determines your life.

Success and failure are also the result of your own thinking and action.

So, how to change your life?

There are three ways to change it.

1) Thinking
2) Self Beliefs
3) Habit

all three things are great study subject.

1) Thinking:

What are you today is due to your thinking. How is your life? And what you are doing? All are the result of your thinking.

I see most of the people complaining about their past thinking, and how they lost opportunity.

As your thinking might be right, but taking decision and acting on that decision is important, otherwise you lost your opportunity.

In life there is no star or luck, opportunity is same for everybody but you have to take maximum advantage of that opportunity by capitalizing on your strength and taking action on your plan.

Lot of people not think about how to become successful, they are thinking about their past decision, but that is not useful, think about your current situation, and think about your future plan to change your life.

Your life will change of you think about future by analyzing your current situation and acting in present, your life will change only if you act in present.

Time is most precious asset in the world you have to take advantage of time, remember time will same in entire your life, only your situation determines it’s a good time or bad time.

Thinking is useful if you act on your thinking. Change your thought change your life. What you are today is entirely because of your thoughts.

Think in right direction, acting in present by using time, with your strength, will definitely change your life.

2) Self Beliefs:
What are you believe in? What are you believe about your self is your self-beliefs.

Unsuccessful people believe, that success is a matter of luck, they don’t know about their strengths.

If you believe you are a good teacher, you become good teacher, because you believe in it.

So what are the changes require to happen in your life, believe in that changes, and change your self-beliefs, change your thoughts, change your beliefs and accept that change that automatically become your own thoughts and your own beliefs.

Never be afraid of change, accept change in life.

“The specific beliefs of yourself in your mind are your self-beliefs”.  What are your mental images of people around you, your family, and your environment determines who you are today.

3) Habits:
Your habits are the most important things in life. What you are today is due to your habits. Your habits might be good or bad. Analyse your habits, what are your current habits, what are the new habits required to change your life, write it down and work on it.

Habits are determines who you are.
Few important habits are mentioned below, it’s not enough.

Working Habit:
Successful people are workaholic; they work entire in their life.
Work very hard, stay at your job till late, full fill your daily task.

In your life, your work is very important, you must be happy at your work, if you not like the work, change it immediately.

Do what you like to do, work what you like to work; don’t work on what others are thinking about your work. You have to work. You must be happy at your work.

If you are not happy with your life, you have to change your work, work is critical to change, but you can change the way you work.

If you are not able to change your work, then change the way you work, changing your way is easy and no risk task, but whatever you do, do it with your full potential.

Passion:

Devotion to your work is your passion. Do your work passionately. In life there is no high or low profile work, work is work only your beliefs about specific work determines your view-point towards your work.

Successful people are passionate about their work, they are workaholic. Passion is your burning desire to do work. Your desire is very important and how intense is your desire towards your goal.

Always be passionate about your work, about your life.

Live your life-like it’s a passion to live. Live life passionately.
If you live life passionately, then you will become happy and motivated in life.

Learning Habit:
It’s a very important habit in life.
Learn, learn and only learn.

There is no failure there are only learning in life. Learn new things and accept changes in life.

There is no coaching required learn, I saw some people they are not educated, but they know how to deal with new technology in life, for example smart phones, laptops, excel sheet, emails. They know what is required, they do that, they learn, because they have desire and passion to learn.

Learn from small things, and there is tremendous opportunity to learn from small things is life, learn from your failure. Learning from failure will teach you more lessons than learning from your success.

Become a student and stay student in entire life.

These three points will change your life, entirely if you like to work on it.

Accept Change In Your Life.

To Your Success,

 

Harish S. Kawalkar

 

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2 Questions to Change Your Life

2 Questions to Change Your Life

You are doing something for yourself. You might have service or you are doing business or you are providing service to others, whatever work you are doing to run your family. You will do something. And in reward you get salary, profit, or commission.

Ultimately you get money. But doing work for money will get you success, yes up to some extent, but you will not become successful up to your potential.

So what to do,

I will give you answer.

It’s more than secret,

It’s more than the law of attraction; it’s more than law of universe. It’s a law of success.

And today I reveal you the law of success………

But there is only one requirement you have to be honest with yourself.

Then go and read it.

This is more than anything you read it ever.

Reveled the law of success

Ask yourself this following question. And answer it honestly. If you do that, then you become unstoppable success in your life.

Are you accountable to yourself? Ask yourself this question every day.

If you would like to do the exercise ask two questions to yourself.

In morning ask first question

what are the things I have to do today?

And at the end of the day ask yourself,

have I done these things, with my full potential and have I done justice to my work?

If your answer is yes you are going to be a big success.

The answer of above two questions will increase your accountability towards yourself.

There are lots of benefits in accountability, success starts with accountability, and it increases your responsibility towards yourself.

If you want to get result do this exercise for continue 30 days. I will personally promise you. You will definitely change your life in 30 days.

Look at the end of the day, what are the things I have to do, and shall I done it with my full potential with justice, if you are not confident ask yourself where shall I fail, write down your failure area, and improve it immediately, and don’t fail on the same things.

Don’t be afraid of failure. You have to learn something new and you have to improve yourself every time.

Do the things with your full potential, don’t limit yourself and don’t draw boundary for yourself, because you can do anything, you think,

You have to focus on your work, and have clear determination of your plan. People who are focused in their life done extraordinary things.
You have to improve yourself every time that leads to excellence and people those become successful are excellence oriented.

Be accountable to yourself.

To Your Success,

 

Harish S. Kawalkar

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Valuable Learning’s From Mahatma Gandhi

Valuable Learning’s From Mahatma Gandhi

I am learning from everybody in my life, the person might be failure in life or successful in life. Learning from failure will teach you extraordinary things and skills. If you study how people unsuccessful in life, you don’t have to repeat that mistakes. If you learn from successful people you learn, the skills required to be successful in life.

In today’s success letter, I am reveling secretes of “Mahatma Gandhi” How that secretes will helpful for today’s generations and what are the new things we learn and become successful in life.

About Mahatma Gandhi

Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi (2^nd October 1869 – 30 January 1948) commonly known as Mahatma Gandhi, In India he is also known as Bapu.

He is considered the father of the Indian Independence movement. Bapu has a concept called “Satyagraha” a non violent way of protecting against injustices.

Bapu had Simple and minimal lifestyle.

Quotes:

1) “Be the change you want to see in the world”.

Whatever change you like to do in others, become change and accept the change first. Change yourself first. This quote will give you the responsibility of your life and your work. We have to change first, and then the whole world follows the change. The responsibilities on your shoulder don’t complain and criticize others.

Be on the driver seat of your life. Take responsibility in life.

2) “Earth provides enough to satisfy every man’s need, but not every man’s greed”.

Nature will fulfill your needs, be minimalistic in life. Your wants must in your control, and it is should be realistic. Don’t greedy in your nature, your greed’s are never-ending, after completing first greed, second greed is on the way. So accept the minimalistic approach in your needs.

3) “If I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire the capacity to do it even if I may not have it at the beginning”.

Believe in yourself. You are the strongest and capable person in the world to do your work. You can do anything and achieve anything, if you believe in it.

Create your own strong beliefs. Your success rate and what person you are today’s is only due to your beliefs. You must have strong positive beliefs.

Told to yourself “I can do it”

4) “Satisfaction lies in the effort, not in the attainment, full effort is full victory”.

Your effort and hard work will give you success; there is no other way to become successful. Take hard effort on your plan and do your work every day with your full effort. Success and failure is the end result, but you also have satisfaction every day, only your effort and your hard work give you satisfaction.

5) “Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.”

If you live by above quote, you will live differently from tomorrow. Do well for society, do well for others, do well for family and do well for everybody. Be on the bright side of life; don’t go towards the dark side of life.

Life is too short to live, any time bad can happen to you. So live happily every day, do well for others, help others.

Learning is everything, you must become a learning machine, learn new every day from everybody.

Read book every day, become reader. Book will help you learning new things. Learn from your failure as well as learn from others failure also. Learning is never-ending.

Become consistent learner.

6) “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is an attribute of the strong”.

Forgive everybody in life; first of all forgive yourself, if you have any failure setbacks. Forgive your family members.

If you forgive yourself, your self-image changes immediately. Your self-image plays an important role in your success. As per bapu forgiveness is an attribute of the strong persons.

7) “I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet.”

It’s a best quote. Become person of your own thought. Don’t take decision on others advice. People will impact on your thought, and change your decision. People become unsuccessful in their life because they act on others advice. Listen to everybody but don’t act on their advice, act on your own thought.

8) “Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.”

Your will power is your source of achieving anything. Your will power is your desire to achieve your goal.

Your will power is your energy, if you use it properly. If you physically fit, but you don’t have will to do anything, your physical fitness is not useful.

Your will power will overtake anything; your will power will help you in converting your weakness into your strength.

9) “An ounce of patience is worth more than a tonne of preaching.”

Patience is the ability to tolerate adverse condition. It’s the ability to master and control of your emotion. Patience is the ability to tolerate adverse condition. It’s the ability to master and control of your emotion.

Control on your emotion and practice stress free life.

Patience is a master-key of successful people.

10) “See the good in people and help them.”

Look for what good in other people, learn from their good skills. Every person is good at something; encourage him every time you meet.

People like to have friends who motivate them, who encourage them. People like to have good happy people around them every time.

Help everybody in life, if you are capable to help. Your help is not going to waste, it will give you satisfaction.

Encourage, motivate and help everybody in your life.

11) “Without action, you aren’t going anywhere”.

Successful people are action oriented, they not only think but they have specific plan and they act on their plan.

Action will give you result, and if you are inactive you are not going to anywhere.

Become action oriented. Midi occur person does exceptionally well because they focus on their action. They are action oriented.

12) “Always believe in your dreams, because if you don’t, you’ll still have hope”.

You must have big dreams, you believe in your dreams. First of all believe in yourself. Only dreams will motivate you every time.

You must have big dream. You have to believe in your dreams. You have to create plan and take action on your dreams.

Dreams without action, remains only dreams that will not give you a result.

Dream big dream.

13) “In a gentle way, you can shake the world”.

Be ethical in life; don’t do unethical in your life. Become a person of value. Your value determines who you are.

Your value will help you in taking right decision. Don’t take decision on the cost of your core values.

If you true to yourself, you have high ethical values, you are going to be successful in life.

Learn something new everyday!

To Your Success,

 

Harish S. Kawalkar

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Self Concept

Self Concept

Who are you today? And what will you become tomorrow?

Everything is depending upon your self-concept.

So, your current self concepts and your new self-concept’s will help you in get more success in life.

What is Self Concepts?

Self concept is, “The specific mental image of yourself in to your mind”. What are your mental images of people around you, your family, and your environment determines who you are today.

Your views will become your concepts over the period of time. So, choosing and working around your views are very important.

If you have an opportunity to speak at conference in around 1000 people, what are your feelings, at that movement describe your self-concept.
Public speaking as a fear, crafted in your mind in childhood days. So if other person is a good at public speaking, you can become good in the same field.

Your personal background creates your self-concepts, your family background, like how your father behaves with you. How your mother take care of you.

What you are doing today is directly related to your self-concepts.

Some self concepts are holding you back; you have to know how to deal with your self-concepts, and how to create new self concepts.

Reading:

Reading is the best habit. By reading books which is related to your field will help you in understanding and forming new concepts. If you are poor in public speaking, you can read book related to public speaking, will help you in better at public speaking. Read 1 book every month, in area which you having very weak self concept. Will give you a boost and you will become new person at end of the year by reading 12 books.

Mastermind Group:
Form your mastermind group, if you are very bad at public speaking, you must have a persons in your group those are very good at public speaking. like wise you must have people; those are very good at specific work. Some people are very good at managing finance. In investing and in finance people have very bad self concepts.
So form group which will help you in your self concepts.

Listen:
Listening is the key of successful people. I find some successful people they talk less as compare to their listening. By talking less they avoid a lot of non sense issues. When you talk you will think less. And if you listen to somebody you think lot, which increase your creativity.
So listen very carefully. By listening you will understand more. If you understand more you think more and your thinking creates your self-concepts.
What you think about yourself is self concept. Thinking big will definitely change your self-concepts.

Behavior:
Others behavior towards you. How other treat you and how others behave with you. Create your self concepts. If your surrounding is full of negative thoughts and negative views about yourself you self concepts collapse, and you will not perform up to your full potential. Don’t change your mind on others opinion, become a person of your own opinion. If you depend lot on others opinion your self concept damages.

Learn:
Learn and study how other successful people have their self concepts. Study their body language and how they face particular situation, will help you in learning and creating your self-concepts.

Visualize:
It’s a great way of improving your self concepts. Visualize yourself as a successful person, your self concept changes, your way of work changes, your thinking changes and you ultimately become a successful person. So visualization has a great power to change your life. If your self-concept is poor about public speaking, you can visualize yourself as a successful public speaker and you have held that visual at the time of public speaking. You can definitely become successful in public speaking.

Values:
What are your values will become your self-concept. So, you must become a person of values and high integrity. You must adhere and stick to your values which will help you in protecting your positive self concepts.

Self Talk:
How you talk with yourself. People have a lot of time talking on issues which is not related to them.
Talk with you positively, always talks to motivate yourself. Your self-talk is a major part in creating your self-concepts.

 

Best of luck!

To Your Success,

 

Harish S. Kawalkar

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Revealed! The most important tool of Success

Revealed the most important tool of Success

What is the one main tool of success? Which will determine your success rate?

“Trust”

People fail in their life dramatically, because they lie to themselves.

Meaning

Trust is truth, reliability, belief, faith, confidence and hope.

In simple language trust is truth.

If you believe in someone, you will trust him more than you.

If you like to believe, you have to believe in yourself than any other person.

You should be truthful to yourself. If you true to yourself you will believe yourself more, you become more reliable on yourself, and if you rely on yourself then you become self-confident.

Truth, believe, reliability, and self-confidence, will boost your self-esteem.

So, first step is you have to trust yourself.

Whom you will tell the truth? You tell the truth, those people who will you trust more.

So, build trust to yourself.

 

Who will you trust more?

If you like to trust, then you have to trust yourself more than any other thing.

Why people more dependent on trust?

People trust other people more than themselves, because they lie to themselves. They not believe in their skills and ability. They are not confident. Ultimately they have low self-esteem.

What is the role of trust in success?

If you like to success in life, you have to build the trust in yourself as well as in your environment.

When we fail at habits regularly, we lose trust in ourselves. People not believe in their ability and skills, they feel guilty, ultimately they lose trust in themselves.

When you start something new and you fail, your belief change and you are going to be unsuccessful.

Our negative beliefs are the main cause of trust.

Failure:

Failure is the main part of losing trust, so if you fail, tell yourself “failure is temporary”. If you think failure is permanent, that changes your beliefs.

Discipline:

Be discipline with your habits, your actions, and your daily exercise. Discipline is a key in building trust.

Trust yourself:

Trust yourself. If you believe in yourself, then you ultimately trust yourself. Keep your promise fulfilled with yourself. Don’t break promises.

 

Best of luck! Trust Yourself.

To Your Success,

 

Harish S. Kawalkar

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Personal Development Plan Of Your Life

Personal Development Plan Of Your Life

Are you in control of your life? Do you have a clear and inspiring idea of what you want to achieve in your life? Are you on your plan to achieve your goal in life?

If you are in charge of your life, you feel superior. You will accomplish more than ordinary people.

If you are not take charge of your life, might someone will take charge, and you have to lose control of your life. You have to take charge of your life.

Three step of Personal Development Plan

1) Take Control (Charge)

2) Idea or GOAL

3) Plan

How to take charge of your life?

Take Responsibility:

You are responsible of your life, and you should responsible for your decision, your family, your career, your dream and your goal.

If you take responsibility, you will look your life from different point of view. You will take decision in different ways.

Every successful person in any field is responsible of his own goal. If you refuse to take responsibility, you will not take charge of your life at all.

Responsibility is most important factor of leadership. You have to be responsible to your action.

Set GOAL:

Before setting any goal in your life, you have to understand yourself first. And…………

Ask yourself what you want to achieve in your life? If you have definite answer then you have a clear idea of your life.

I find some people in society, they don’t know what to do in life, and they don’t have any purpose. You must have purpose in life. Your purpose might be personal growth, career growth, to do something beneficial to society. But you have some inspiring idea in your life.

Your goal or purpose must inspire you every time; otherwise, your passion to achieve your goal diminishes over the period of time.

So, do what you like to do, which will inspire you every time.

Life is too short to do something meaningful in life.

So, you have some idea or you have definite goal in life. This is your second step of your personal development plan.

PLAN

Plan is important in life. You have to plan according to your skills, your strength; you cannot plan on your weakness.

You have to analyse your current situation, so you can make better plan to achieve your goal.

You have to consider your skill sets; if you are not social person you cannot be successful in Insurance agent business. So before to plan anything you have to analyse your skills, you have to analyse your current situation.

If you analyse everything, then you are able to plan effectively.

You know necessary skills to achieve your goal, you know the time period.

Understanding yourself first is important in life to better at decision-making, better in plan and better and happy in life.

Few steps for better at plan:

Time

Your plan should be time bounded, you have to draw your plan to achieve specific goal in specific time period.

Action

Creating plan is important, but you have to be action oriented, otherwise there is no result from your plan.

Skills

If there is specific skills are required to achieve your plan, you have to adapt and learn new skills. You should be open to learn new things in life.

Relationship

Your relationship with other people will helpful in achieving and making plan.

Before creating your personal development plan of your life, you have to ask yourself, is my plan benefiting others?

The purpose of writing this week success letter is….

You must have specific goal in life, which will benefit others and will give satisfaction in your life. Over the period of year, if your grandchildren look and ask to your accomplishments in life you have a best answer to tell. They must inspire from your life.

“Live life which will inspire to others”

Life’s most persistent and urgent question is.  What are you doing for others?

– Martin Luther King, Jr.

Best of luck!

To Your Success,

Harish S. Kawalkar

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Download my E Book Free! (4 Ps of Success)

Download my E Book Free!  (4 Ps of Success)

I believe in god. And today is the day of lord Ganesha. One of my favorite god.

Ganesha, is a god of knowledge and success.

On this day I reveled the “4Ps of Success” my free e book for download. (Click on the image for download)

You have all the necessary key skills and habit to success. But you have to know the 4 Ps of success which will help you in succeeding in your life.

If you not read and apply this 4 Ps you will definitely leads to unsuccessful.

My first e book devoted to lord Ganesha.

So hurry and download it immediately.

If this book will help you in your life send me mail, or comment it on the blog.

 

With respect to lord Ganesha.

To Your Success

 

Harish S. Kawalkar

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